With Love and Peace everything is Possible. - MVL
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Top 10 Things Wives Want From Their Husbands
In no particular order, here are ten things that many wives want from their husbands.
Note that these are "wants" -- not emotional needs. As individuals, we are each responsible for filling our own emotional needs.
We believe that the four basic emotional needs are the need to be loved and to love; the need to belong; the need for a good self-image; and the need for autonomy.
1. A Day Off Now and Then
Don't fuss about your wife taking a day off several times a month. This means that she will be free from worrying about what is happening with the kids, the house, the pets, and you. She deserves this break in her schedule and she needs to provide it for herself to be emotionally and physically healthy.
2. Willingness to Make Time for Her and Your Children
Having quality time with your wife and kids isn't something that just happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans but by following through. Time with those you love has to be a high priority for you.
3. Understanding and Forgiveness
There will be days when your wife will make mistakes or when she will be difficult to be around. No one is perfect. She both wants and deserves your willingness to understand and forgive her. Remember that no relationship can be sustained without forgiveness.
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4. Listening Well
It's really disheartening for a wife to share her thoughts and feelings with her mate and then realize that he didn't actually listen to her. Your wife wants you to not only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.
5. Saying "Yes" More Than Saying "No"
Habitual negative responses to your wife and kids can push them away from you. Think twice before saying "no" and you will be surprised at how saying "yes" can improve your relationships.
6. Conversation
Don't let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing but talk about your kids, your jobs, and the weather. If that happens, your marriage relationship could be in real trouble.
7. Telling Her Daily That She is Loved
Everyone wants to be affirmed. Everyone wants to know they are loved. The best ways to say "I love you" are usually in simple, everyday, seemingly unimportant ways like an unexpected hug or holding hands when you walk together.
8. Affection and Kindness
How often do you say "please" or "thank you" or give your spouse an unexpected kiss? Unfortunately, some married couples forget that being kind and affectionate to one another are keys to a successful marriage.
9. Sharing Household and Child Rearing Responsibilities.
One of the main reasons couples fight is conflict over who is doing what around the house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of your wife. She shouldn't have to ask you to do your share around the house.
The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up. - Mark Twain
The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it.
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Homework Tips for Parents.
Research clearly says doing homework enhances not only children's learning but also essential skills they will need to succeed in school and in life.
Recognize your role is helper not doer. Sometimes in our quest to help our kids succeed, we may get carried away providing too much help.
Make sure he's doing the work--not you! One of the best self-esteem enhancers is recognizing we've done a job we can be proud of.
Offering too much help robs your child of those powerful, "I did it!" moments, and he just may be saying to himself instead, "Mom did it for me."
Do praise his efforts and not just the "end product." Kids needs to learn the importance of hard work and effort.
Perhaps the most important trait doing homework instills in our children is perseverance.
And the only way they'll learn to value effort is by our steady emphasis of "it's not good enough just to start; you have to finish."
Insist homework be her responsibility not yours.Resist the temptation of always sitting next to her and offer your help only when it's really needed.
If your child is having difficulties, help her understand the work by making up similar problems and showing her step by step how to do it.
Asking her to show you her completed work at the end of each row or section is another way to ensure she's following directions.
Section the assignment in smaller chunks.
Chunking assignments into smaller chunks is often helpful for kids who have difficulty sticking to a task, have shorter attention spans.
If you do find homework battles increasing, consider hiring a tutor.
Agree together upon specific times for doing homework ahead of time and then stick to it.
Many kids need a break after school, while others like to delve right in. Find your child's best time work time and consistently reinforce it.
Drawing a clock face that shows the set homework time is helpful for younger children.
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Word of Caution
We are not saying that you can create a happy marriage when there is infidelity, abuse, lying, etc. A dysfunctional marriage can make you unhappy.
If you are in an unhappy marriage, please seek professional counseling so you can make an informed and rational decision as to whether or not your marriage is worth saving.
MVL 0
With Love and Peace everything is possible.
MVL 1
Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
Aristotle
MVL 2
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
Germaine Greer
MVL 3
To keep your marriage brimming, with love in the wedding cup, whenever you're wrong, admit it; whenever you're right, shut up.
Ogden Nash
MVL 4
To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage.
Lao Tzu
MVL 5
It took great courage to ask a beautiful young woman to marry me. Believe me, it is easier to play the whole Petrushka on the piano.
Arthur Rubinstein
MVL 6
Two such as you with such a master speed cannot be parted nor be swept away from one another once you are agreed that life is only life forevermore together wing to wing and oar to oar.
Robert Frost
MVL 7
There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.
Homer
MVL 8
Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination.
Roy Goodman
MVL 9
Two souls with but a single thought,Two hearts that beat as one.
Friedrich Halm
MVL 10
There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.
Martin Luther
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Dive Into An Engaging Mystery Under The Sea With Endless Ocean: Blue World
What It Is: Endless Ocean: Blue World is a story-driven and visually enticing game in which you are a character taking time off from school to search for a legendary sunken city.
Along the way, you will find yourself going deeper into an undersea mystery as you learn about the creatures and habitats beneath the surface.
Blue World is an underwater exploration where you interact with and learn about creatures as small as shrimp and as large as whales.
Why It's Fun: The story within Blue World is a good-old-fashioned explorer's mystery that plays out like a book that you can't put down.
Throughout the game you have options and choices as to how your character should proceed that are a lot like the "Choose Your Own Adventure" books.
While working your way through the mystery, you are faced with side missions such as rescuing a friend or calming an agitated shark.
These missions aren't too difficult, but they keep you engaged and keep the game-play fun.
Who's Going To Love It: This is a great game for adults to play with the kids in their life because they can have fun identifying and learning about the fish together.
This is not a high action game, but that's ok, it isn't supposed to be. Players are able to journey through the game at their own pace.
This same group will really love the ability to purchase items to decorate their characters' home.
What To Be Aware Of: Blue World is more than just a fun game. It is also educational.
There are hundreds of real-life species in the game and each possesses a pop-up window that the player can access to learn fascinating facts about the creature.
This is a single player game, however, there is an online feature that allows you to play with a friend over the Internet.
In order to engage the online play, both people will need an internet-connected Wii.
Video Game Information: Endless Ocean: Blue World
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Kids and Food, 12 key rules to live by:
It's no surprise that parents might need some help understanding what it means to eat healthy.
Parents control the supply lines. You decide which foods to buy and when to serve them.
From the foods you offer, kids get to choose what they will eat or whether to eat at all. Kids need to have some say in the matter.
Quit the "clean-plate club." Let kids stop eating when they feel they've had enough. Lots of parents grew up under the clean-plate rule.
Start them young. Food preferences are developed early in life, so offer variety. Likes and dislikes begin forming even when kids are babies.
Rewrite the kids' menu. Who says kids only want to eat hot dogs, pizza? You can start by letting them try a little of whatever you ordered or ordering an appetizer for them to try.
Drink calories count. Soda and other sweetened drinks add extra calories and get in the way of good nutrition. Water and milk are the best drinks for kids.
Put sweets in their place. Occasional sweets are fine, but don't turn dessert into the main reason for eating dinner.
Food is not love. Find better ways to say "I love you."
Kids do as you do. Be a role model and eat healthy yourself. When trying to teach good eating habits, try to set the best example possible.
Limit TV and computer time. When you do, you'll avoid mindless snacking and encourage activity.
Research has shown that kids who cut down on TV-watching also reduced their percentage of body fat.
And limiting "screen time" means you'll have more time to be active together.
Juice is fine when it's 100%, but kids don't need much of it - 4 to 6 ounces a day is enough for preschoolers.
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